There comes a point in your life when you say "enough!" The fight within becomes so unbearable that you say." No more, that's it I've had it." You're done being a victim. A quick shift in consciousness appears. You hit rock bottom.. There is no way but up. You realize that you have to look yourself in the mirror and get real with yourself and become the person you know that you can become. Decide now and realize that "one day" is an illusion, "one day" never comes.